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What's your favorite first message that actually gets a reply? | Forum

Tony Miller
Tony Miller Jul 13, 5:31 AM

I've noticed that simple messages like "Hi" rarely lead anywhere anymore. I'm curious what kind of opening messages actually work for other people.

Do you prefer asking a question, commenting on someone's profile, or using humor? Have you found any conversation starters that consistently get positive responses?

I'd love to hear real examples that have worked for you.

Alex Cooper
Alex Cooper Jul 14, 8:07 AM
I think the best first messages are the ones that feel personal and show that you actually looked at the person’s profile. A simple question about their hobbies, a place they’ve visited, or something they mentioned can make the conversation feel more natural. I usually avoid generic messages because it’s easier to reply when someone gives you something interesting to talk about. A little humor also helps — sometimes a funny or creative opening can make a person smile and make the conversation easier to start.
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